Sunday, March 19, 2017

Spartan and Car

Right after the last post I came down with a lovely little cold.  I even stayed home from work one day.  I felt pretty rotten for a few days.  And of course this was all right before the Spartan Race.




We drove over to Houston last Friday night, leaving at the same time as everyone else who was on spring break.  We did pretty good getting out of town and nearly to Katy before we hit traffic.  We got to our friends house around 7:30 and just chilled for a while.



Saturday morning was the Sprint Spartan Race for me and the 1 miles kids race for Sidney.  The weather was fabulous (not really).  It had rained all night and rained off and on (more on than off) all day.  The venue was just north of Houston in the Hempstead/Waller area.  We took off from the house at about 8:30 and arrived by 9:30.  We got parked and trekked to the bus.  Then we reached the mud.....



Just to get into the venue you had to go through mud, some ankle deep.  Sidney did her race first.  She did great and had a fun time.  Then it was my turn.  I was so very nervous, which is super silly.  I had myself all worked up.  It was a waste of my energy.  It was  a super short and flat course.  25 obstacles with nothing any harder than obstacles I had seen before.  There was a new obstacle called Olympus. It was really just a sloped wall that was tall enough you couldn't touch the ground with your feet.  You had to cross it using holes, grips and chains and using only your upper body.  It was pretty slippery but not too bad.  Otherwise there were traditional obstacles including the javelin, dunk wall, barbed wire, pulls, carry, bars, nets, walls and ropes.  I did manage to do the Herk Hoist for the first time by myself.  I did a happy jig.


It was amazingly muddy.  I never fell while running.  But I fell into some deep mud twice at the Atlas carry.  It was pretty funny.  A total mud bath, the whole thing.  You could make a mud pie out of what was in my clothes.



I finished the race in 1 hour and 15 minutes which was 13 if 172 in my age group, 122 of 1683 women, and 664 of 4622 overall.  It was a really great if not muddy course and I will definitely do it again even in the rain.

I finished and looked for Sidney and my friend for an hour in the raining cold without any of my stuff.... They had gone back to the car and I didn't know.  A very nice gentleman gave me a trash bag to wear to get warm and let me use his phone to track down Sidney.  An hour later I hauled my muddy self into my friends car and blasted the heat and seat heaters.



On my way out I watched all the people trying to get out of the VIP parking.  You could pay $25 to park at the venue versus park at the Waller Stadium (on pavement) and ride the bus for 15 minutes.  I think everyone, even the 4 wheel drives, who parked at the venue had to be pushed by racers or pulled by tractors out of the mud.  I might have giggled a little.


I disappeared into the shower when we got home to wash the ten pounds of mud off and my friend went to get Lupe Tortillas for dinner.  It was too cold and wet for Sidney to swim so she was a little sad but we watched a movie and had a quiet evening.


We went to church Sunday morning at our old Katy church.  There weren't many people there because of spring break.  But it was nice to visit.  After church we stopped at Whole Foods for grilled cheese before heading home.



Sidney had the week off from school but I still worked Monday through Thursday.  We went to the San Antonio Food Bank on Friday morning to work in the garden.  We worked in the orchard this time planting trees and then helping load trees onto a truck to take down to a new orchard south of town.  They were planting 200 citrus trees.  I think every tree we touched had thorns and I have the evidence all over my arms.


We headed in from the garden to wash up and use the restroom before we left and were met at the door by a couple of food bank employees.  They were looking for the owner of a blue Prius.  That would be me.  My car had been hit in the parking lot resulting in significant damage to the front.  The person who hit it was insured and left his information.  He was very apologetic.  The food bank people felt bad too.  I spent the next 30 minutes on the phone with his insurance.  The representative was very nice and helpful.  Then Sidney and I nursed the car over to the collision center and I got a rental.  It will be two weeks until I get it back.


After all that, we met Kirk and Mary Anne in Boerne at the courthouse to apply for a passport renewal for Sidney.  Sidney then went back to Mary Anne's and spent the night there with Kirk.  This was the first time she had stayed overnight with Kirk since the accident and it went very well.  He had a big bump earlier in the week and I wasn't sure she would be able to go.  But he never remembers the bumps and was home and doing fine.  Apparently she slept on the floor by his bed and he slept all night, which he never does.  I think it was really good for her and I will try to make it happen more often.  It is also very nice of Mary Anne to let her come over.


Today was church and homework and getting ready for a real 5 day week.  We don't have to go back to swimming until Tuesday so we will get a small break tomorrow.

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Goodbye Julie

My step sister, Julie, went on hospice three weeks ago and went home two weeks ago.  Julie has been very sick for sometime, unable to eat.  She had a feeding tube for a while but that also stopped working.  She has been fighting the failure of her digestive system for several years and finally lost.  She was only 50 but I know she was ready to go home.  She was tired and worn down.  She leaves behind her mother, Betty, two sisters, Kate and Davetta, two daughters, Kandiss and Tifany, and a grandson Jakob.  We will miss her gentle nature and soft heart. There have been a great many tears in the last two weeks and yet we celebrate her peace and homecoming.  I was privileged to be your sister for 25 years. I love you. 
Oldest to youngest, Julie is the middle


Our lives do go on.  Some of what is below is before Julie died and some after.  We watched the Super Bowl with a friend. I have to admit I am very disappointed in the Falcons.  I didn't think the commercials weren't that great either.  I did make a minor mistake by telling Sidney that the commercials that had the kids and a Super Bowl number were the kids who had been conceived after a Super Bowl win.  Sidney promptly asked me what conceived meant....

All of Sidney's teeth have manically appeared.  She never complained or cried about her baby teeth or any adult teeth...until now.  She is getting her 12 year molars and they apparently hurt. She didn't cry but she was not a happy camper.  We got her some topical anesthetic which she accidentally got all over her mouth. That was funny.  

We have continued volunteering at the food bank.  This time we worked in the garden.  It is 35 plus acres where everything grown is distributed through the food bank.  I planted rows of corn (by hand) and Sidney pulled cabbage to prepare those rows for summer vegetables.  We planted the corn by hand because the rows are mulched with plastic mulch.  We were planting the third crop in the mulch and the last. The first crop, which was watermelon, was planted when the mulch was laid. To save money the next two crops, cabbage and corn, had to be planted by hand to reuse the mulch.  You have to plant in the existing holes in the mulch.  Sidney is demonstrating her independence. Hence the not working on the same thing I was. 

She also doesn't sit with me at church.  She has been sitting with other people but I think she is participating more.  It's funny also because she won't share a bulletin or hymnal with me but she will with others. Pre-teen is so much fun.

We had the last swim meet of the short course season. It was outside and 46 degrees with a great north wind.  It was mightily cold. 

I did career day at Sidney's school again. I had a lot more fun this time talking more about my career and all of our moves during my career as well as the careers of others.  I got a lot of questions and really enjoyed the dialogue. 

Work has been busy.  All of our big reports are due in the first three months. And I am down another team member.  One of the members of my team is moving to the engineering team. I am very sad to see him go but happy he is getting another opportunity.